Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Positive reinforcement is the spice of life....

Last night, my husband deserved sex.

No, it wasn't his birthday or anything. That would be obligatory sex, which I loathe. I just don't agree with having sex because it's expected.

But I do believe it's best used as a reward for good behavior, especially when the behavior was just to be nice, and not to get sex.

What did he do that he was blessed with such a gift?

He moved out of the closet.

That's right...he gave up his half of the walk-in, so that I can spread my clothes out, organize them by sleeve length and then color, and see all my shoes instead of keeping them in a Rubbermaid tote. I also have plans to hang hooks for all my purses!

So yes, sex was an appropriate response when "thank you" just doesn't seem like quite enough. In fact, he may get it again tonight.

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